How to Change a Family Court Order in the UK: Your Step-by-Step Guide
- MSD Solicitors
- Aug 22, 2023
- 3 min read
Updated: Mar 3
Family court orders exist to protect families and resolve disputes fairly, but life doesn’t always stick to a plan. When circumstances shift—whether it’s a new job, a move, or changes in your child’s needs—you might need to update an existing court order. In the UK, this process requires careful planning and a clear understanding of the legal steps involved.
Let’s break down how to navigate this process, why you might need to make changes, and how to ensure your family’s best interests stay front and center.
What Exactly Is a Family Court Order?
A family court order is a legal agreement approved by a judge to resolve issues like:
Child custody: Who your child lives with and who makes major decisions about their upbringing.
Visitation schedules: When a parent who doesn’t have custody spends time with their child.
Child or spousal support: Financial arrangements for children or a former partner.
Parenting plans: Detailed agreements about how parents will share responsibilities.
These orders are meant to create stability, but they aren’t set in stone. If your situation changes, the law allows for adjustments—as long as you follow the right process.

When Should You Consider Changing a Court Order?
Common reasons families seek changes include:
Money matters: A job loss, pay rise, or unexpected costs (like medical bills) could mean child or spousal support needs updating.
Relocation: Moving for work, a new relationship, or family support might require revising visitation schedules.
Child’s well-being: As kids grow, their needs (or preferences, especially for older teens) might shift—like school choices or health concerns.
Parental changes: A parent’s new work hours, health issues, or remarriage could affect custody arrangements.
If any of these sound familiar, it’s time to explore your options.
Types of Orders You Can Update
Most family court orders can be modified, including:
Custody agreements
Visitation timetables
Child support payments
Spousal maintenance
Parenting plans

How to Change a Family Court Order: A Real-World Guide
1. Start with a Conversation
Before jumping into legal battles, try talking to the other parent or family member. If you’re on good terms, you might agree to minor changes without court involvement. For example, adjusting pickup times by an hour or splitting school holiday costs differently.
Tip: Use mediation if tensions are high. A neutral third party can help you find common ground.
2. Get Expert Legal Advice
If informal talks go nowhere, contact a family law solicitor. They’ll explain your rights, review your original order, and help you decide whether you have strong grounds for a change.
Why this matters: Courts won’t amend orders just because you’re unhappy—you’ll need to prove a significant change in circumstances. A solicitor can help you build this case.
3. Apply to the Court
Your solicitor will help you file a “C100” application (for child-related orders) or a “D11” form (for financial orders). You’ll need to:
Explain why the current order isn’t working.
Provide evidence (e.g., pay slips, school letters, medical reports).
Pay a court fee (unless you qualify for help with costs).
4. Prepare for the Hearing
Both parties will attend court, where a judge will ask:
Is the change in circumstances genuine and substantial?
Does the proposed update serve the child’s best interests (if applicable)?
Bring all relevant documents and be ready to explain how the old order is no longer practical.
5. Finalize the New Order
If the judge agrees, you’ll receive an updated court order. Keep copies safe—you’ll need them for schools, employers, or if disagreements arise later.
Why Work with a Solicitor?
Changing a court order isn’t just paperwork—it’s about protecting your family’s future. A solicitor can:
Spot weak points in your case before you go to court.
Negotiate with the other party’s legal team to avoid unnecessary hearings.
Present evidence clearly and persuasively (e.g., showing how a pay cut affects child support).
Guide you through stressful moments with practical advice.
How We Can Help at MSD Solicitors
Family law is deeply personal, and we know how overwhelming court processes can feel. At MSD Solicitors, we’ve helped countless families update orders with empathy and expertise. Whether you’re adjusting visitation after a move or reworking child support due to a job change, we’ll:
Listen to your story without judgment.
Explain your options in plain English (no legal jargon!).
Fight for a solution that puts your family’s well-being first.
Need to make a change? Let’s talk. We’ll help you navigate this process with confidence and care.
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